Another break in the action

 Its that time again where I take a break from politics and talk about something else!  So this past week I moved from Tucson, AZ to Denver, CO.  Moving back home has been something I have wanted to do for quite some time and finally had the opportunity to do it.  The entire move is somewhat bittersweet for me.  I am happy to be back home but I leave behind friends and people I have grown to love over the past 12 years.  It gives me a fresh start at my company and a new beginning for many things.  The good outweighs the bad but I am still uncertain about the entire move.  

Tomorrow I start at my new position here and am excited overall.  I hate starting at a new position because my personality can be difficult to get used to.  I have been taken as an asshole when I was really just trying to be funny.  My humor can be dry and I am very straight forward which most people have a hard time dealing with.  Almost every person I have met and told I was very forward and honest tend to not like those things after some time or are offended at the bluntness of that honesty.  So what can I do about that?  I really don't know.  I am trying hard to learn from past mistakes and modify my approach but have yet to master that. 

I watched and shared an interesting video from YouTube today about habit 5 from the book 7 habits of highly effective people.  It states, "Seek first to understand and then to be understood."  That is a skill I really need to work on.  Because of ADHD I usually am thinking 4 or 5 steps ahead of any conversation and not giving the other person my full attention.  I am thinking this is a cause of a lot of the "asshole" issues I have.  If I feel as though I am right or have something to add I jump right in, interrupt and share my thoughts.  I don't do this to be an asshole, if I don't say it when I think it I will lose the thought.  The problem is the other person can think I am not listening at all or am not interested in their opinions or ideas.  That could not be further from the truth.  If they knew how quickly my brain "changes channels" they would understand I may never get that idea or thought back again.  That is the part that sucks.  Do any of you have similar issues?  If so how did you overcome them?

So tomorrow I begin my single life over again.  I am uncertain of my future but am excited to start.  There is still a ton of stuff I need to worry about but at least I am back home.  Colorado has been where my heart has been my entire life.  I love this state and love everything about Denver.  I am going to be writing more music reviews, attending more concerts and finishing up some school work, so I will be super busy.  If you like the blog please share it and check back often for updates!